Similarly, we are also constantly in flux. Our cells die and are (sometimes) renewed, our glands release hormones, our brains release chemicals and fire electrical signals; yet we are completely unconscious of all the activity occurring in our bodies and minds.
Quite often changes that affect our lives can seem extraordinarily
difficult to deal with, but when we look at the change affecting us in relation
to impermanence, we realise that the change itself is natural. It is ourselves holding
onto the past, wishing things would stay the same, which causes the difficulty.
A few months ago my father was
diagnosed with myeloma – bone marrow cancer. The natural reaction is to wish
that life could go back to the way it was before the onset of the disease, but
this kind of thinking only increases the feelings of helplessness and panic:
“There is no going back! Things will never be the same again!”
Rationally I know that my father’s old age and disease are a natural
part of life, and yet my attachment to him means I want him to always be
healthy. This is when ‘all is impermanent’ becomes a helpful contemplation, to
a degree, it becomes a comfort.
The pain and anguish felt at any time in life, is impermanent.
No matter how bad things get, it is impermanent. There will be
happiness again in the future.
Of course for balance, it is important to remember that all is impermanent
during the good times, as well as the bad, otherwise we fall straight back into
clinging to the present or the past.
Understanding that ‘all is impermanent’ allows us to realise our true nature, and that of the universe around us; and in that, we can find peace.
Understanding that ‘all is impermanent’ allows us to realise our true nature, and that of the universe around us; and in that, we can find peace.
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These ideas have developed during my learning about The Four Noble Truths.
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